Ms kasey gardner
Friday will be the 3rd year that my boyfriend and I have been together. I am 19 and he is 20 and recently graduated college. I am hoping for an engagement ring but I dont think its going to happen. I dont understand why he doesn't want to get engaged. I dont want to get married anytime soon but I would like to take our relationship a step further??

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Ms Simple Arora
My guy just dumped me - has suddenly decided to go back to his wife he claimed to have never loved. We had so many plans and dreams about our future. How do I get him back?

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Miss clare smith
I have been email a guy for 3mths now and we speak on text messages as well, however we have never arranged too meet as yet and have also never swapped photo's, however there is some times he goes really quiet on me, does not answer my text messages for hours on end or he does not log onto the computer when he has said he will. I know he has a demanding job and is away with his work a lot of the time has meetings etc and I know these are genuine but I just get really paranoid when he does not answer me, do you think I am looking too much into this ?????? and do you think I should take the first steps and ask him if he wants too meet up - he has only mentioned meeting up once but nothing was ever arrange ?

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Miss Lisa Murrin
I have been friends with this guy for over 3 years and we started seeing each other nearly 3 months ago then he always said he didn't want a relationship and neither did I, but we had such a great connection and great chemistry, and got on amazing together we decided to get together. I became the only girl he ever trusted, it was great until he started working a lot and I moaned about it and said I couldn't be with him part time forgetting that it wasn't forever, then he realised why he didn't want a relationship and I have messed everything up, we are best friends and I see him the same as before and more. How do I get him back?

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glowgirl
How do I tell someone I'm leaving because of their attitude?

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BeaDy
I'm 62 and very recently started a relationship with a 61 year old woman. I'm attracted to her physically and mentally. She tells me she has never been so happy with a man, that I make her feel good about herself and she wants our relationship to be permanent. My problem is she is not 'greatly' attracted to me physically, but knows I will 'grow' on her. I've had a dozen meaningful relationships in my life and have never had this problem so don't know if it's normal. I'm unhappy with her attitude and have told her I need time apart to reconsider if I should continue our relationship. Is this normal for women of her age? Do you consider I should stay with her for a little longer and see what develops?

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Cooldude
I am a young man aged 25 and I am attracted to older women. How do I get the courage to propose them?

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Ms Alexis Whitmire
Is my baby's father cheating on me?

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babe
I have a problem. I met this guy 4 months ago and after three months he said he doesnt think he could make me happy so we split and agreed to be friend. I really fell in love with him so he said after that he really loves me and cares for me, I want him back and I know he wont come back to me. Help me understand this, if he loves me and cares for me why does he not want me?

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Mrs robyn rogers
I am 17 and in love with a 39 year old man. I love him and I am so happy when I am with him. Should I stay with him despite what others think?

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Mr Warren T
This is my view of myself whenever I get into a relationship:

When I get involved with a lady, things

almost always start out good. As the weeks progress, and I keep focusing on her, which I love to do, I seem to lose any life of my own, or even more accurately, in my mind, I feel she is thinking that I don't have a life because my attention is on her & I'm putting my own pursuits aside. I know this sounds silly but it is a problem for me. Any advice you could offer would be great.

A second matter that I think is unrelated to the first one but concerns me just as much is what I've heard referred to as the "catch & release". I love pursuing the woman but shortly after I have her, a lot of the thrill is gone. It seems then I worry more about how I'm going to satisfy them & keep them interested in me. In a matter of time, I'm ready to end it & move on to the next hunt. I'm not proud of any of this. Is this common? Any helpful advice?

I'm 45 years old & both of these issues have been with me for long while.

Thank you much for reading & for any reply you offer.

Warren

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BRIGHTEYES2337
I've been dating the same guy off and on for about six years. He used to be really lazy and have an excuse for everything. When we recently got back together things were different, but then slowly slipped back to the way they had been before. He's 22 and I'm 21. I work for the government, have my own apartment, my car and all my bills are paid. He has no job and borrows money from his mum all the time! She lets him live next door to her for free, in a rental apartment that she owns. I get so angry everytime he either asks to borrow a cigarette from me, or eats the food that I bought, and it keeps getting worse!! Every time I talk to him about this stuff he just shrugs it off like it no big deal deal to live that way. He has absolutely no motivation for anything!! I really care about him and always have, but I'm so angry I cant stand to be around him. Will he ever grow up?

What makes it worse is that my family can not stand to see me with him. They think I can do better, that I have potential and that I'm slowly becoming like his family. I don't know why I'm with him when I'm so unhappy. I just don't know what to do anymore!! Please help!!

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jjnb4000
My girl friend and I have been together for about 3 ½ years now. We’ve lived in her house for about 2 ½ years (I sold mine to move in with her). Even though our first year together was very rocky, there still is a lot of passion in our relationship. I love her dearly and I’m convinced that she loves me too. BUT, it seems that recently she’s begun to act disrespectfully towards me. Berating me in front of my kids and talking bad about me to her friends among other things. It’s been very hurtful to me and I’ve talked with her about it and for a while it seemed to do some good. Then the other day, she decided to go on a cruise with one of her girl friends, and booked it with out even discussing it with me first. I was pretty upset when she called me at work to tell me the next day. Because I’ve mentioned to her on numerous occasions how much I’d like to go on a cruise with her. Every time she’s turned me down, because she says she’d rather go to an island, NOT a cruise. The island vacation is much more expensive, and at this point in my life I can’t really afford it. I’m also upset because I’ve heard about happens on these cruises. Because of our history we have some trust issues, so I’m not all that comfortable with my girlfriend partying down for a week strait with a bunch of strangers. I feel like I can’t win here. If I insist that she doesn’t go…..she’ll resent me, and if she does go I’ll resent her. Either way I feel like it’s the end of our relationship. I’ve told her that the choice is hers, but if she goes it will drive a wedge between us that may never go away. Am I just being an insecure jerk like she says?

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Miss Terri m
I've met a guy through a friend of mine an known each other for quite a while now, an he’s shows all the signs of liking me, always looking at me, we went to the movies he made the 1st move, and much more. I had friends over and he was one of them and I got quite drunk an told him a few times I like him....now the other day he told me a few things, one thing I didn’t get but took it as he likes me, but cant take the next step cause he has had a hard break up with his last girl friend, but told me it wasn’t because of his ex, he just thinks it's that stage of his life. He told me that I would be getting hurt in the end...a couple of days later I told him that I didn’t understand, and he told me that if we hung out more an I fell for him he couldn’t take it to the next step..he changed the whole I liking thing around, cause he told me he liked me, there was nothing about me liking him in the last conversation....an brought the whole drinking thing up.... I then tried to get out of the whole situation but he wouldn’t let me, he said something about FWB an I told him its fine with me as long as we stay friends, which is a comment it was really...after all this I then sent him as msg an asked him about being FWB an he said sure...was this a wrong step, should I wait for him to become ready to take the next step again, cause, I’ve never felt this way about anyone??

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Mr josh mccubbin
Can you be proud of your boyfriend?

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joey
Is there any valid reason for cheating?

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Ms Sarah Nash
Rules for dating women?

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can anyone help
I was dating this girl for a month and a half, she was travelling and so am I. I met her through friends. I was staying with everything including sex was amazing. She has only been with 2 guys before me, the first guy she was with 2yrs then broke up because she didn't love him the second guy was with her for 2wks he broke her heart because he had to leave. She said she came to New Zealand to find herself we had an excellent time, I got to know her well and she really liked me, the time came that she had to leave but only to travel within the country. I was going to meet up with her later, I got really upset and said I would like to be with her, but things got intense so she left on a bad note. I phoned and emailed to try fix things but she said she needed space, unfortunately I did not respect this and obviously I was confused, so matters got worse. She says she still wants to be friends but needs space and that things where too intense. I explained that I care for her and all and that I miss her. She then said all she ever asked for is space and that I was not respecting this. The thing is I know she still has feelings for me. What should I do? Everything is really fragile, I gave her 2wks but I think she still wants space and she doesn't want me to contact her until she feels better about things.

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Lady ashley murray
My boyfriend has lied to me in the past and we both couldn't handle it so he told me everything that he lied to me about and now people that I thought were my friends are spreading rumors that my boyfriend is calling me names and everything behind my back, but he swears to me that hes not lying and gets really mad at me when I don't believe him. How can I just forget the past and believe him now??????

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Mr Alex Jacob
My girl friend and I have been dating each other for over a year now...

We have professed to love each other countless number of times during this one year period.

But through out the relationship she has been constantly and incessantly been attracted to other men, and she even flirts with them, and has also confessed that she has sexual thoughts about them. I have told her on several different occasions that this behavior of hers is extremely irritating, while she tells me she'd change. And even after several instances I've found her repeating the same and even confessing the same. At one point, I even broke up and told her to leave. Only this time she begs, cries and pleads she'd change and asks me to take her back. Obviously I crumble to this cause she is the one I love and I take her back. Even now she repeats the same behavior.

Moreover, she still loves one of her male childhood friend’s, whom she’s never had a romantic relationship with except for friendship. She professes to love him. Even though she claims that he is not the logical match for her. More than love, I believe it was reasons of security that she wanted to be with me and she confesses to me, a major chunk of the reasons she wants to be with me is for her security.

Our relationship is on the threshold of a break up and I am preparing myself for it...

I want to know if this behavior of hers is normal and common to all women, especially to the ones they claim to love? If so why? Is it expected? What do you think should be my obvious course of action as I can’t stand this behaviour? I would be grateful to any insight you could offer on the matter.

Ps: Her father is an alcoholic, a verbally abusive one and was since one her childhood. She's also had plenty of traumatic childhood experiences...

With this in mind, does it change your perspective to the initially asked questions? Does she need help? What should I do? Should I break up with her, knowing that the ultimate decision is mine? Or Should I still support and back her up?

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BB
How to ask someone who is disabled out for a date?

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Mrs Tammy Kent
How do I get my man to pay more attention to me?

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christylynn
My fiance and I have been engaged for 2 years. Just lately this year he has changed. He said he believes in the greater good, he wants to do something that means something, something he will be remembered for and him not doing that is making him a very miserable person and it really is. He is never happy anymore, everything is an argument. He tells me I am simple minded and a peasant for thinking the way I do. I respect his views I really do. I don't really understand it but I respect it. Shouldn't he respect mine? He is beginning to become hard to live with, I do everything for him and all he does is play a video game all day. He says he will never be happy until he does whatever to be remembered but he's making me miserable with him. What can I do? What do I do? I love him to death, I mean he's my fiance and I want nothing more then to spend the rest of my life with him. On Valentines Day he gave me presents and I gave him his and then he got on the computer to play his game. All I wanted was some time with him and he didn't want to spend it with me. Have I just just became routine for him?

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bisytrade
Smart questions and answers to get the attention of a girl.

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Ms kasey gardner
I have a very hard time trusting people. I don't know why, I just do. My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me because I went through his email. I have done it before and swore that I wouldn't do it again. But I did, and he found out. I can't help it. I know its invading his privacy. Like I said, I do trust him..just in the back of my mind I don't. But I really will stop doing this if he will just give me another chance. He said we that we are still friends, he just isn't ready to go back out. He also told me that if he realizes he made a mistake by breaking up with me then we will get back together. How do I make him forgive me, and miss me bad enough to want me back? I really love him, and I want to be with him.

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Girl I had to dinner asks me back to her flat, tells me I'm amazing...but then seems to freak, says that I was all too keen for y'know when she wanted me to be a gentleman... I hadn't thought I had been that bad... However we were both a little hammered....

Why the sudden change?

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Miss natasha  pickford
I like this guy alot but another guy I like has asked me out but I would like to go out with the first guy but I like the second guy too.

I know I cant two time but I like the first guy sooo much but I like the second guy too, what do I do?

ano

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Ms nicole beverley
I think bout Callan as my only one, and Jamie is the one I'm with now. I feel like it isnt the right timing to be with Callan. I should be feeling this way cos I'm with Jamie. For 4 years, I've loved Callan and I still do! doesn't it mean something? Jamie wants a future with me, I think I do, but not visual.

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chrisgirl
My boyfriend of three years had a brief (three time) sexual encounter with the landlady of his best friend. He confessed this to me and expected me to end the relationship. I didn't. He swore that the guilt was eating him alive and he told me all. All of this took place one year ago. BUT he still likes to go over to her house to drink beer and play video games. I stay at his house four nights a week, but on one of the other nights, usually Monday, he will go to her house for the video games. If he gets too drunk he sleeps over on her couch. He always calls me first to tell me he is going over there. He vows he loves me and wants to marry me, but how can I trust him completely again? Or should I?

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Angels_Heart
I am 46 years old.. have ended a long term relationship' I connected with a man from overseas on an Internet dating site..

He sent me the most beautiful emails told me I was the woman of his dreams.. I really felt drawn to him.. he said he was drawn to me' that I was the woman he had been searching for' said he wanted to come to my country and meet me' I was so happy'

He told me he had to go away on business as he owns a huge company asked me to keep on writing to him.. and he said don't get angry if I don't reply''immediately'

I told him I would write but after waiting one month and no response..

told him I would rather be alone' as I felt like i was talking to a brick wall with him not answering''

I asked him to please let me know if he wanted closure' no reply;

I went back to the dating site and there he was on line' I checked and he had viewed my profile again after 1 month'' still no reply'' please can some one help me out as I feel so confused''

if he isnt interested in me why is he looking at my profile' he was so lovely i feel so down as I don't understand how men think' I would sincerely appreciate some advise'

Can a relationship be re sparked or re kindled' what should I do I can't get him out of my head and heart' thank you so much..look forward to some good advise'

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Mr Sidney Cole
How can I meet more women?

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lotsoflove1980
hi I'm desperately seeking some advice on my relationship. I broke up with my long term ex partner (guy1) to go straight into another only for him to break my heart (guy2) then I met some guy who I have been with for three months, he a nice guy (guy3) The problem is that guy two and three are good mates and I think guy two is trying to flirt with me again and I might be interested again. I feel so bad even feeling this but I now in my heart that guy number one is for me. What will I do? I have heaps of friendships that are on the line?

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roxtar88
I currently live with my boyfriend and we've been together for 3 years. I recently found out he's never been in love with me. Our lease for our apt doesn't end until July of next year. Neither of us can afford our own place or break our lease. What should I do? I'm madly in love with him, but smart enough to get out of a relationship that doesn't have a future. But, how do I live with him for the next year?

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Ms simone jacobs
I have just met a guy!

I am totally confused, how do I know if hes the one for me, I don't know if I'm physically attracted to him, I just don't know if hes my type, the more he calls me, the more I get scared off!

How can I know if Ive met the right one or not?

Its not like I'm a kid anymore, I should be able to recognise the man thats for me without all this agonising!

Please help!

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Ms Priya M
How to keep a man attracted towards women for life long relationships?

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Miss Izyan Jamaludin
Well, I have a crush on a senior in college. At first I SMS him anonymously in September 2004 but later I introduced myself by showing my picture in Friendster. I think it went quite well. When I first SMS him, he already had a girlfriend. Then, we were in the same project but we never had any decent conversation. We SMS about 8 months then. during the holiday in June 2005, he went out with someone I know. Not really a friend, but I know her. So, I didn't sms him for almost a year, although, he gave me his new number he broke up with her somewhere in February this year. Early may 2006, I lost my phone. I made an announcement in Friendster asking my friend to give me their number. He responded to that and gave his number. He asked me how am I doing. I told him I'm working part time in a bookstore in a shopping centre. About a month after that, one day he SMS me and told me that he's in the bookstore. I didn't bring my mobile, so, when I read the message, he had already left. I'm so frustrated at that time, but, guess what, a week after that, he's there again luckily this time, I'm about to start work when he SMS telling me that he's in the shopping center because of work, so, we met at coffee bean. That was the first time ever I talk to him and surprisingly, it was so easy. like we've known each other forever. I was very surprised because all this time, we just SMS. never talk. Not even talking on the phone, too bad I had to cut it short because I have to rush to work. SO, please tell me, do you think I have the chance with him?

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Miss Aimy Taylor
Is it better for someone to look attractive or to look pretty?

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How to have a girlfriend?

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Miss jaan ssss
How to ask for a date?

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Mr Douglas Shaw
I'm heartbroken what can I do?

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Miss m brec
Shall I dump the boyfriend that I have always wanted to go out with because he's now mine?

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yolanda
My friend hook me up with this guy and I stop talking to him for no reason 2 years ago, we reasanlty start talking again and he seen a pic of me. I seen a pic of him; we like each other but now he works all the time and sleeps most of the time, so we barely talk only on the weekend. I really want to see him for the first time but he not making no effort no more to see me, you think I being pushy and should wait until he give me the word to see him? also i want to now where me and him stand how should i go about asking that?

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Miss lorna parker
Do you have to subscribe to dating agencies to receive emails?

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jipsy1
Started chatting with someone online but now I want to stop. How do I politely tell him I am not interested anymore?

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Mr Big 'No
I met this girl about 6 months ago, and we see each other about once or twice a week, in church, I really think she's cute, we exchanged numbers on a Wednesday, I called her on Thursday and left her a message to call me when she can (I wanted to invite her to lunch). I seen her at church on Sunday, she came to me to let me know that she got my message, and that she would call me. Still no call and it's Tuesday. what should I do?

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Mr chris morgan
I've been dating a girl I care a lot about for the last 6 months. We seem to be a good match except that she has recently been displaying a lot of issues with my career (military). I've tried to find common ground with her on the issue but she holds strong opinions on the subject. Any advice on how to proceed here?

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Mr Big 'No
I'm attracted to this young lady at my job, and we run into each other every day at the copier, and her cubical is right outside my office. I really wanna ask her out, but the most I've ever said to her was 'hi. How do I ask her out without the fear of rejection?

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Mr sdhgsadh adfhadf
Can an ordinary person meet a foreign supermodel in a bar?

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Mr jack daniel
How can I become better at picking up women?

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Mr David Smith
Where can I find an Asian woman to date?

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