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Mrs naomi michaela  brogan
How do you know if your husband is telling you the truth about his sexuality after I heard about a little few words that got said, please help me on this one.

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Miss Zoe Cole
hi

I'm a 16 year old girl. I read somewhere that there are straight girls who watch lesbian porn because it turns them on and masturbate to it, but they feel disgusted afterwards.

I used to feel disgusted after I watched STRAIGHT porn or straight sex scenes. it eventually stopped. (sometimes I still feel that way. but VERY occasionally) I don't know why it stopped. Maybe it was because i started looking more GIRLS with bikinis. but I'm not even sure I look at more girls now than I did before.

but anyway. Does this mean I'm a lesbian because i feel this way after watching STRAIGHT porn? (I have never watched lesbian porn so i don't know how I would feel after watching that) is this coz I am a lesbian or because I lived in a society where I had never even heard of porn and felt that it was something Really wrong?

I alo have this OBSESSION with pretty girls. these days it seems like I check out girls more than boys. (sometimes for clothes sometimes just to see if they are pretty) I have always had this special interest in homosexuality.

Can you tell me your opinion on this? plz reply as soon as you can?

I also don't understand how someone can be gay all their life but marry ppl of the opposite sex. did they REALLY love their husbands/wives. I want to know wat is going through their mind when they marry people of the opposite sex even though they are gay? don't they feel like something is wrong?

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Miss Zoe Cole
Hi. I'm a 16 year old girl and I was sexually abused by my cousin (cousin brother) when I was 5 and he was 8 for two-three years. I was a very 'sexual' child. I would have sexual fantasies (involving guys) at a very young age (8). I would never act on them although I would hug a guy once in a while. This stopped when I was about 10. When I was 12 I started to get very sexual again. I used to think dressing up in tiny clothes was sexy and I would sometimes dress up in tiny clothes and that would turn me on. When I was dressing up I would feel weird at first but I would continue. After the 'horny' time I would feel filthy and weird and disgusted and promise myself that I would never do it again. But I would do it occasionally. A year or so later I started to watch porn. Very occasionally, and I started to masturbate. But when I masturbate, although I am quite capable of masturbating to a guy it gets quite boring sometimes so I add a girl in, and I sometimes pretend to be that girl but not always. Only when I feel like its wrong to have that girl in the fantasy. So to hide it I pretend its me. But most of the time my fantasies include a guy and a girl or a bunch of girls and me being one of them and some guys in the background. I do think the female body is sexier than the male body. I also an obsession with pretty girls. Whenever I see a REALLY BEAUTIFUL girl in my school I want to be friends with her. But I doubt I would do anything once we become friends. I also have a SLIGHT crush on my best friend (who is really pretty). All these girls have nice personalities and get all the attention from boys and that makes me feel inferior and jealous of them and I wish i could be like them. I sometimes feel stupid and stutter when I am around them. I guess you could say I am intimidated by them. I doubt I would look at other girls so much and judge them and compare myself to them so much if I was more confident with myself. I have a a few crushes on guys. I have actually been REALLY IN LOVE with a guy once (like all other teen girls) but I did not have any intention on acting on it. I used get jealous of their girlfriends and stalk them on 'myspace'. but the thing is even when they stopped dating I would still look at pictures of their girlfriends because thought they were pretty and I would save THOUSANDS of photos of those girls on my computer. Once I even got close to googling 'pretty girls'.

I always just assumed that one day I would grow up and marry a guy and have a family, and the thought of being a mother and wife and having a husband makes me feel AMAZING. But sometimes I just cannot imagine myself with a guy. When I do I have to alter things about myself eg. make myself prettier, skinnier and have a much nicer personality etc...I fantasize about guys a LOT, but I never fantasize about girls. The thought of being sexually involved with a girl disgusts me. Since I was 13 I've had this 'special' interest in homosexuality. I would read questions from other teens about homosexuality but I would sort of hide as if I did not want other people to know I was reading about it. I feel like the more I think about this the more lesbian I become. If you asked me if I would be able to fall in love with girl two weeks ago I would say NO WAY! but now I feel like I can. I feel like I'm going crazy. I never thought of myself as a homosexual. iI don't feel like myself anymore. plz help me! do you think I might be a lesbian or a bisexual? does this mean I am sexually attracted to girls? if it does, does it mean I'm a homosexual? pleaze help me I am REALLY REALLY confused. I keep analysing my situation over and over again but don't come up with any good answers. When am I going to be clear about my sexuality?

When I have a crush on a guy it makes me feel nervous, and excited etc..

but this never happens with a girl, although sometimes I get disappointed when that girl doesn't come to school coz I can't look at her face anymore.

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Miss Zoe Cole
Hi. I'm a 16 year old girl and today when I looked at my female teacher's boobs I got this feeling in my vagina so does this mean I'm sexually attracted to her. This has happened once before with someone else. Does this mean I'm a lesbian? Is this a major clue to my sexual orientation?

and also just a week ago I think I was maybe.....80-90 % straight and 20 % lesbian but this week I feel like I'm mainly lesbian and not straight. does this mean I'm completely lesbian? how can this change so fast. plz help. I dont feel like myself anymore.

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chemostris
I dated this girl for a 3 month last year, she is nice, smart, and very involved when we are together. however, she doesnt call me back or respond to my txt messages when we are not together. We broke up after that. we have been friends and seen each other several times during last year. Recently, we started seeing each other a lot and she stayed over couple of nights, we just went to sleep together in same bed. We kissed and fooled around at my birthday and now she doesnt call me back. what to do. Same old pattern. Is she trying to ignore me or is it normal?

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JayBear
I frequently get acne or clogged hair follicles in my pubic hair. My partner (we are gay males) and I enjoy masturbating and watching porn together. It seems that no matter what kind of lube, lotion or cream I use, I end up getting a bunch of acne after a prolonged (several hours) session of masturbation. I have tried showering and washing with soap and water after about an hour. I have tried using lubes and creams that are supposed to be pure and non-clogging, but I end up with pimples and/or infected hairs. Does anyone know what might help?

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Mrs Lea schneider
I have been married for 19 years. Mostly, sexless. My husband and I have sex 1x a year. We have (2) children. He has used every excuse in the world as to why he is not interested in sex. I am very attractive, men stare at me all the time and I am very fit. So, it's never been about my appearance or personality. I really feel that he is gay. He visits a college friend all the time in the city who is a lawyer and is gay. He states that they just have dinner thats all. He has tried to be intimate with me in not the right places. (If you know what I mean) He also does not know a women's anatomy. Never has. I recently found (2) emails and they were titled: RE: Don f**kstick important and RE: Thumping F**kstick Tory. Are these gay references? I could not open the emails as I do not have the password. If, he is gay I just wish he would be honest and let me go. It has hurt me for the past 19 years not having him ever want me. Also, he refuses to kiss me on the lips for over 10 years. It has been hard on me to remain faithful to him because I have needs. Sometimes I don't know how I have done it all these years. Is there anyone out there who has experienced a situation like mine or anyone that could help me understand? I am really looking for advice from someone who is gay or someone who was married that found out their husband was gay. I have asked him straight out and he just laughs at me. Or, if I push too hard he once said, "Ok I am as gay as a gay blade." Whatever that means. He will never admit it. I just need some guidance as I can't go to my family with this or close friends. It's too private. PLEASE HELP ME! Thanks

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Mrs Lea schneider
My husband receives emails. I am starting to wonder if he is gay. The email he received was titled - Thumping f**kstick Tory. Is this a gay reference? Please help me.

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Miss Zykrinnox Animee
My name is zykrinnox, online anyway, and I have a problem that I need help with.

Just yesterday I found out that one of my best guy friends has feelings for another guy. I'm a girl, but that's still very scary. I don't know what to do.

Also, there's another guy friend I have who found out that this same guy I mentioned just recently is gay, and they're friends. He doesn't have any idea what to do about it, and as you can imagine it's very scary for him.

What do I do?

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asparks
I am in the worst funk right now. All I can think about is how badly I want to hook up with my friend. The problem is, she’s a lesbian/bi and I am bi/gay. I actually find myself jealous that she likes a guy from work and I found myself heartbroken at lunch when I was eating with her. It all wouldn’t matter much if I knew that she was strictly gay but the fact that she is considering dating men makes me desire her more than ever. We’ve been great friends since we’ve met and I think I could honestly date her and have an incredible relationship that would be very open and honest but I don’t know if she would want to date me.

I am afraid of making our friendship awkward by putting my feelings out there but I know that I won’t be able to have a chance if I don’t try. What should I do?

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Mr Jaye windsor
I am a Gay Man in a relationship, that I have been in for 7 years, and I have started to desire both sexes! Just last week I cheated on my current partner and had sex with a female work colleague after a staff night out, now I feel dirty with what I have done. Does this mean that I am in fact bisexual?

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Mrs  
I am 29 years old and no longer have a lot of close friends. I am happily married and have two children. My best friend right now is an 18 year old. We have had sexual relations with and without my husband. This is not my first female sexual experience. I think about her all the time. My husband works nights and I spend my evenings text messaging her or watching movies with her. I get alot of grief because of our age difference and wondering how I can be such close friends with someone so young. Can you help me with all of this confusion?

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shadow
I'm 20, and I have to tell my parents that I've been going out with my best friend (who is another girl) for over a few month now.

Unfortunately they do not like her, they think she's a bad influence.

I have to tell them today!! I just want to know how I should tell them.

There was a time my mum talked to my girlfriend, everything was g8, but then my Girlfriend took harm on herself and ODed, then my mum thought she was bad.

My girlfriend is finding it hard too, coz I'm lieing all the time, when I see her I tell my folks I'm at another persons house.

I'm so scared of how they will act!

I'm just hoping they don't kick me out (I'm at uni but for the summer I'm at my folks house)

:(

What should I do! :'(

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Mr Chris Medding
I am a gay 20 year old dating a 25 year old. I am crazy about him but I feel he is callous towards me. When we get off of the phone he says "I'm going to talk to you later bye." I have mentioned on numerous occasion that I wish he were more affectionate, however he always ignores the comment. We don't see each other as often as we like which I think is part of the problem but usually we get along well in person. He does however always criticize my maturity. He also becomes irritated when I ask him how he feels about me. He also tells me to be in charge but challenges 85% of my decisions. He tells me we are happy but I jut sense otherwise. I truly love and care about him and don't know what to do. What can we do to make this work?

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Dan
How come my boyfriend lasts longer during sex? And how can I prolong ejaculating?

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None Tanzania
How do I know if I'm a lesbian or not?

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IQ VOID
Regarding masculine lesbians. I just wondered if it is the same for feminine (speaking/acting) gay men. Where does the campness come from? Sorry if that sounds offensive but I couldn't find another way to explain it.

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blueboi
Hello my name is Chris I'm 27 yo. I met this guy online who really needs help, he's 19 has no where to go so I'm going to give him 150 dollars to come to my place and stay with me. Please give me advice on this.

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Ms Sharan kaur
Why do we relate homosexuality with Leonardo Da Vinci?

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meme
Am I gay?

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charlie
Same sex couple 9 years, second male now wants anal intercourse but too painful, age 53.

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Mr vaishakh sharma
How is anal sex performed?

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popat
Who is a crossdresser?

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itsme
Why are some people gay?

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Mr Benjamin Lorenowicz
What are some resources for coming out of the closet?

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Are the Pet Shop Boys gay?

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Miss Al Bath
I'm a teenage bisexual can you help me?

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Mrs Erlissa  howard
How many gay people are in the United States?

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Miss alia a
Anal sex..what are its complications?

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david51058
Can someone please explain why, in a lot of lesbian relationships, one or both of the women try to make themselves look as masculine as possible? If being a lesbian means you are attracted to other women, why then would you be attracted to a woman who tries to make herself look like a man? It doesn't seem to make any sense.

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Miss lisa rostock
Am I bisexual?

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Miss lisa rostock
My name is Lisa I want to know if in the next coming months I'll be bisexual or a lesbian?

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Miss lisa rostock
My name is Lisa. I want to know if I am or will be bisexual or a lesbian in the next coming months. Who with where and when and will my boyfriend join in or just watch. Please if you can tell me everything you know about this?

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Mr tom pong poo
My friends think that I am gay because I have snogged a 35yr old gay man and I'm only 20 but he spiked me does this mean I am gay???

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Mr Joe Caley
How do I understand my own identity?

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Miss becky churm
How do I give my girlfriend an orgasm?

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Mr Ernesto Calderon
Is Thomas Perron gay or bisexual?

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Mr Monte Howell
What is gay sex?

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Miss BECKS CLARKE
I have recently got a new girlfriend. Her parents don't know she is seeing a girl. Therefore we have to keep it a secret, if her family find out we are together they will go mad. What do we do?

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Mrs Chris Miller
What is a hemaphrodite?

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Lord Trevor smith
Why am I gay ?

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