Tom
I understand that sex can strengthen the bond between partners. What I dont understand is how?

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Tom
My girlfriend and I are 17 and she is afraid of getting pregnant. We have had sex many times and nothing has ever gone wrong. We use Durex extra safe condoms which is supposed to be the best money can buy. I have reassured her many times that nothing will go wrong as long as we are extra careful and I have said that if anything did go wrong that I would be there for her and stand by her no matter what. Which is what I intend to do. I have explained that it's probably just as likely of me dying of sudden heart failure or more likely that I will get hit by a bus than her getting pregnant. I have shown her the Durex site where it explains the procedures in which the condoms undergo so that they know each of them work. I have done extensive research and have brought her facts and figures to show her. But she still gets scared. What more can I do to reassure her? I will never leave her if she doesn't want to have sex with me but I can't help but feel disappointed. Honestly, I just really enjoy having sex with her and I feel like every time we do it I feel even closer to her like I want to be with her forever. I will miss that feeling and the satisfaction and enjoyment we both get.

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I am in a relationship with a man that is very obsessive and controlling. He is very jealous and gets mad even if I have anything to do with my own son, such as talk on the phone to him, etc. Last week, I ran from him because I was afraid of him and he came looking for me. He says that he loves me and will never let me get away from him. I had to quit a job because of his jealously, accusing me of every man that I talked to on the job. He goes off (screams, yells, and accuses me of stupid things) for no reason. He says he will not do it again, but this is the second time I have ran from him. It may sound funny, but I do love him, just think that this is a very dangerous relationship and do not know what to do. What is your advice? Do I get away from him permanently? Is it really love when someone wants to own and control you?

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georgia peach77777
To simply explained: My question is how do I handle the following situation? I'm madly in love with my fiance and he's madly in love with me but one day he just left without leaving his new address and phone number. He knows where I live and drives by frequently but won't come in and talk. I really want to see him person to person dreadfully. The problem is my stepmother's meddlesome ways comes beween us. To the point where I could not reach out to him when he was ready. I'm ready now and I understand his resentment but I'm losing patience. I really want to speak to him to discuss this and I'm feeling frustrated by my inability to communicate with him.Please offer me some advice.

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Izzy
I have wakened from a deep sleep on about 3 occasions to find my boyfriend has his penis between my hips and working away as if he were having intercourse to the point of his ejaculation. At other times prior to this I have suspected this activity due to wetness. He doesn't actually penetrate my body, is this rape? Afterwards I feel upset and used, lying awake for hours afterwards while he turns over to snore. I now feel obliged to sleep on my back whilst in bed with him to avoid this happening again. I feel violated by his actions.

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Will my lover forgive me and come back to me? He broke up with me.

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Miss Jenn R
Hi, I am in the worst state of my life I have ever experienced. I have been with my fiance for 10 years. We lived together for 5 years and are suppose to get married next week. All throughout out relationship, he always told me he had a doubt in his mind that we weren't right for each other. I never cooked, cleaned, or had enough sex with him. This caused lots of fights throughout the years. He said he eventually over came those doubts and proposed to me after almost 8 years. He has a good job and is very much into driving nice cars and playing video games for an extremely long time, where I found myself going to sleep and waking up alone for a very long time due to his frequent time of playing a computer game. I had to even cancel my health insurance because I was going through college and working at a job with no benefits. He said it wasn't his responsibility to help me pay for my health insurance, since we weren't married yet. He said he works hard for his money and deserves an expensive car. Anyway, I formed an emotional bond with an administrator at my job who has two children with the women he lives with and is old enough to be my dad. I hid this friendship from my fiance, knowing he was against me being friends with the opposite sex. For some reason, I made a friend with this male anyway and I don't know why. Three months before our wedding, my fiance found out about the extensive amount of phone conversations me and this guy shared, which included hours outside of work. My fiance looked through our cell bill where we share minutes and it is under his name. He figured all this out after I went over the minutes for the month talking with this man. My fiance called him up and confronted him and the woman he lives with. The reassurance that nothing wasn't going on didn't help my fiance to forgive me. He was so hurt and angry that I kept from him for 7 months a friendship he new nothing about. At first he wanted to postpone the wedding and work on things. After three months now, my fiance asked me to move out and start over with my life as he seems to not be able to forgive me and move on. He says he doesn't want anyone else, but can't be with me anymore as I betrayed him and he can never look at me the same, even though he still has feelings for me. He was not so innocent in lies and trust with me in the beginning of our relationship, but I forgave him. He said it is not the same to compare because we weren't engaged. My life has fallen apart and I regret ever talking with this friend. I cut off all ties with this man and realized that my fiance is way more important than some random friend. I need him back in my life and I can't seem to get over this. I hat myself for ruining my future. I can't eat, sleep, work, or even leave the house. I sit home alone all day crying while he is going out partying and on vacation. We are both a year or so away from our 30's. I am ready to settle down and have a family with him and it kills me inside to know that I was so close to the fairy tale and threw it all away. How can I ever forgive myself for what I have done? I never did anything like this before. I can't even imagine spending the rest of my life with someone else. Please tell me what to do. I need help right now because I don't know how much more my heart and soul can take anymore. He said he was never able to be romantic enough, put me on a pedestal or adore me the way I always wanted. He said I will thank him someday and some other man will be lucky to have me. How can he let me go so easily and allow me to go in the arms of another. That feeling makes my stomach twist in knots. I feel like with all this that happened, I realized that the little things I would complain he never gave me is something I will never get from anyone. There is no perfect man out there and I should have held on tighter to the one giving me his future. Is there a way to fix this, because I can never forgive myself for what I have done. I have the opportunity to move away 2 hours from where we live now in the next few days to start over a new life. Do I take that jump? Is there any hope for us if I stay around the area? I'm so afraid and scared. I am to dependent on others and do not cope with change good at all. I can t even deal with imagine him spending his life with anyone but me. I m going out of my mind and don t know how to deal with the excruciating pain I am experiencing. Please, I need help. Do I deserve a 2nd chance to prove I learned the hard way from my mistakes?

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sexymoma
Can I get a tubaligation reversed?

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georgia peach77777
I've been engaged for six years and I feel like he's dragging his feet. I've been very good to him and I expect we should set a wedding date. I have some goals of wanting to start a family and time is of essence but all of a sudden he left without leaving an address or phone number. I am distraught over this and I have no way to contact him. I really love him. I waited six years. I am seeing him exclusively. Help.

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Zebaa
How to administer Viagra to my partner without his knowing and how will it take to start taking effect and how long will it last ? Are there any side effects ?

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Mr kevin booth
I am 27 years old married with a great sex life; however my wife has a really close friend they do everything together. But 1 week ago my wife and her friend got back late from the gym and asked a crazy question. My wife wanted me to perform anal sex on her friend whilst she watched. My wife isn't into anal sex and I don't know if I am, I did think it was a joke at first but her friend (Sarah) agreed and said that she knew my wife didn't like anal and that I fantasised and that she wanted to make me happy. I don't want to wreck our marriage, but what shall I do?

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Mr Kumud Sharma
I really don't know but I'm not able to trust my girlfriend???? What should I do?

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buthead
I have lived with this man for 14 yrs, as he works out of town Ive been the main caretaker of his 44 acre farm. He has lied, got a restraining order against me and kicked me out without a dime or anything else. This is unfair and inhumane. What can I do???help

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Mr Mike Reeves
I am 23 years old and for the last 6 years have been so deeply in love with someone. I have not been able to move on in my life.

There is a little history between us but we have never been a couple and she has been with another man for the last 4 years.

The problem is I finally built up the courage to tell her and we ended up together that night and now were supposed to be seeing one another on the quiet!

I hate doing that as it will make the situation worse.

Also I used to be a very heavy drinker which nearly killed me and the last thing I want is to go down that road, for my daughters sake!

That's why I will be grateful for any help.

Thank you.

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Mr Mike Reeves
I am a 23 year old male and for the last 5-6 years have been deep in love with Michelle.

I cant settle down with anyone else because it always comes back to Michelle that I want to be with.

It has left me confused because she still after all this time is giving me mixed signals and she has a boyfriend who she doesnt get on with.

This situation has led me to be a very heavy drinker to block out the emotions because all I want to do is get on with my life because I have spent a lot of time in hospital and need to move on.

Basically should I tell her the truth and hope for the best or should I just go with the flow and hope for the best?

Any help will be appreciated

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k_yogesh_39
I'm a guy aged 28 yrs about to marry a girl aged 25 yrs (arranged). She has completed her B.Tech recently but is looking for job now .

Few days back I explained to her the relationship of a husband & wife in all manners i.e both the emotional relationship & the sexual relationship of marriage.

She accepted & heard the new things excitedly & she is eager to have the physical relation after marriage, to which she was afraid of earlier. In her mind she had the phobia that marriage means getting physically involved only & that too all the man is after is having sex with the girl, but now she is relaxed with the way I have told her that the relationship means more than being physically involved. So she is happy & relaxed that the physical union after marriage shall be according to her only .

But now the problem is that , every time she thinks of sex only like, if she sees any images, posters or girl /boy walking , her looks goes straight to the genital areas of those people only & she starts visualizing those things in her mind & thereafter she feels guilty about them.

Although we are not physically involved till now & have decided to be physically united after marriage, but recently she opened a porn site & saw the porn images (naked images of boys/girls) so she feels guilty of what comes to her mind when she visualizes those things.

I want to know what problem is this? Is this some mental problem or just the disturbance? Do we need to go for some psychiatric advice?

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Miss latha jella
Is it cheating to hide the past relationship with my loved one??? I love him so much, please help me?

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Michelle
I've been in a relationship for almost a year now with a guy I love very much. We get a long great and both feel like we're soulmates. One issue... he won't check his email when I'm around and when I ask him about it, he says "Everyone has a right to privacy." It just makes me wonder what he needs to hide from me. This is really eating at me and I don't know what to think. I've heard a famous therapist say "People only hide things when they have something to hide." True?

Michelle

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Miss sheena holmes
My boyfriend and I have an awesome sex life. I am highly satisfied and I thought he was to...he confessed to me one day after a great night of sex that some nights after we would have outstanding sex he would go home and watch porn and masturbate, it really bothers me! I have no idea how to handle this..should I break up with him? I mean it is not me, I give him all the pleasure he wants plus I am not what you would call unsatisfying or unappealing! Help need advice ASAP!!!

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easydoesit
My wife and I haven't had sex in eight years. I long to be with a woman. How do you find a sex buddy?

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Mr Bobby Day
I am 35 my wife is 30. We have a very good intimate loving and sexual relationship, but of late since past one year I have developed this fantasy while travelling in crowded train if a man sticks and rubs himself on my wife's butts I feel tremendously excited. I have told this to my wife and requested her to ignore it and stand still as I enjoy it. Initially she was very annoyed but I told her as this does not disturb our relationship and it gives me pleasure so after six months of continuous convincing she has agreed. She cooperates my fantasy sometimes and we come home and have great sex.

Is this very abnormal? Will it affect our relationship in future? If bad how can I quit this fantasy? I have tried hard to quit but the harder I try the more I seem to get into it. I love my wife very much and she also loves me too. Please advise.

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Mr luis vera
Help on how do I stop premature ejaculation?

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1dancer1
Is it really possible to know at the first sight that you are going to deeply love someone?

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Mrs Cimberly TMW
What steps should be taken in order to establish paternity? It doesn't seem right just sitting around awaiting a phone call. This is driving me crazy!!! To top it off the girl (15) is pregnant. I haven't been able to sleep or eat. Please help.

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My husband cheated on me when the youngest of our children was approximately 6 months old. At the time he said he needed a couple of days to determine if he still wanted to be with me. I was devastated, but tried to be fair to him, gave him some time. I knew I wanted to be together for us and our two children. I found out he had not only had an affair with a coworker, but was involved in pornography and on-line relationships/sex. Now two years later, we are still together but I still don't feel the same. I am often depressed. I am not sure I love him anymore. I have not been able to feel like I trust him. He says he loves me, that I am the best thing that happened. I am just so lost. How do I know or believe that he loves me. I believed him before...and found him to be an amazing liar. I am catholic, and do not believe in divorce. What can I do to feel better about this relationship?

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Mrs Cimberly TMW
I have been married going on 8 years and in the relationship for almost 14. Around the Holiday my husband ran into someone at the mall that said there is a possibility that he's the father of her 15 year old daughter. What makes it bad is that I questioned my husband about her (on two occasions) early on in the relationship and he denied any involvement with this girl. I am having a really hard time dealing with this. And he is as usual so laid back. Please help.

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Sola
Why does a mans sperm sometimes have an acidic taste and is sweet at other times?

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Sir kd sanders
How do get your wife to want you?

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tisnelda
My husband doesn't want to go to my company Christmas party. I personally really enjoy my work friends, and wish he would be more social. He tends to shy away from group events of any kind. Can I make him go, or do I need to suck it up and fly solo?

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I have sexual desires for another women but I am married what should I do?

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Mr DAN RINCON
hello I feel weird asking but here I go. I have been with my wife for 4 years. I'm 24 and she 22. We have 2 kids together. The beginning was great but lately we have been fighting a lot and we have not had any sexual contact in two weeks and going. We had problems for a couple of months and fight but we make up. She knows the problem I have addressed it but she seems not interested and doesn't care it seems. She also shows more attention to others but fights with me. I'm always the one to try to make it work and she just keeps fighting. I have noticed that she now goes on MYSPACE a lot...... we make plans but never fall through. I work 64hrs a week and on weekends come home at midnight. I have been so stressed lately and she knows it but make things worse. Could this be a sign.....she insists that she is not talking to no other guy but her actions show different? PLEASE HELP.

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Ms Chere  Thompson
My lover said he is not attracted to my body. What should I do?

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Ms Chere  Thompson
Me and my lover argue everyday, but he don't know the problems is within myself. What should I do?

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Miss Rachel Naylor
My boyfriends seems to have lost interest in me, I've tried everything that I can think of. One thing that I know is getting to him is that I wont give him oral as I am nervous about getting it wrong (I have even bought a book to try and help). Could this be one of the reasons he doesn't seem interested anymore, not just with me but with sex as well? I know things may start to pick up when we get our own place as lodgings where we are is putting a strain on our relationship. Please feel free to contact me on raychellnaylor1@hotmail.co.uk for extra information. Thanks

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Mr Chris Arias
My girlfriend and I truly love each other and respect each other on many levels, but have some differences that lead to arguments. I feel she has a careless approach to many things, but I must take responsibility for initiating much of the conflict. My aggravation with her complacency builds to a point in which I address the issues with a total lack of respect for her. The discontent comes across as condescension and lacks constructiveness. She ends up feeling low and frustrated, and I end up regretting my approach although I feel my aggravation bares some legitimacy. I don't like being angry about these things and I loathe the places I go to during the conflict. I really care about her and respect her, although my words sometimes contradict those feelings. How can we achieve a level of understanding, and how can I soften my approach when the same issues continue to come up?

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Miss Jaime - Lee Perry
I have been having sex with some Man for just over a week now... We havent been using anything. I have already had my period this month and now I am bleeding heavily and I'm not due on until the 5 or 6th of next month. I'm always on at the same time every month. I have really lost my appetite and is it possible for me to still get pregnant on the first day of my period?

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Mr Bobby Day
Hi I am a 33 yrs man my wife is 28. We are married since 3 yrs. I Love to have sex daily and my wife is not interested. She says its too boring and we should have once a week. Please explain is she abnormal or am I abnormal?

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saasasasasssss
If a boyfriend sucks on a girls nipple could it make her nipples swollen and tender?

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Ms Mary Trenkamp
I'm currently having relations with a man that has a girlfriend and a baby on the way. I get along really well with this man and the love making is amazing. I always tell him to take me to the bars so I can find my own man but he says he doesn't want to because he wants me all to himself. We do everything together and he even invites me along when his girlfriend is with him. I wish he would just leave her and be with me but I'm not gonna push it on him cause he does have a kid on the way. But I also don't want to loose him. What should I do?

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I am extremely nervous about this...My partner and I had sex for about 2 hours straight with a condom, but it mysteriously disappeared....Could it still be stuck in my vagina??? HELP!!! Please hurry!!!

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kb77
I trust my husband, but my insecurities creep up on me sometimes which isnt fair to him - but I can't help it. We had only ever been with each other and although he loves me and only wants me - he wanted to experience being with other women. I tried to support him on this but it tore me to pieces. He stopped immediately and has not and will not do anything behind my back - he is very honest and I respect that so much. I just worry that I cant be all that he wants and needs, that I am not desirable enough to him. He assures me I am, but I guess I am just not over the hurt of myself saying 'yes' to something in the first place that I wished so desperately I'd have said no to. Did I want him to be with another woman/women? No! but I thought that if I said no, it would get the better of him over time and he'd be tempted to, or have an affair or leave me etc. It took a lot of courage for him to talk to me about it in the first place. And because I love him so much I want him to be happy and fulfilled, but I just couldn't handle it. I became a real mess. Nothing is happening, he removed himself from sites straight away etc. But I still tense up every now and then and freak out. What should I do?

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I'm engaged with this perfectionist. For a while, I've been madly in love with him. But, after a year of engagement, he's gone from perfectionist to over bearing control freak. Every day I try to make him happy, but I feel like I never can. My love for him diminishes more everyday. How do I break up with him?

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 nicole kadri
Should I tell my boyfriend how many times I've been married?

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Ms Brain Storm
Can a female be pregnant if she has had intercourse a day before her period even though her period came two days after she had intercourse?

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tcwk
How can you tell when a woman has an orgasm?

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I have been dating someone for three months. When it got intimate I asked that he not see anyone else. He said I would know when it was over and tell me before doing so. I found out he made a date to see someone and did so behind my back. He was mad I found out and assured me nothing happened but also told me that he owes me nothing, this relationship is too new for me to make demands. I feel now like I cannot trust him am I wrong or right?

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Ms dawn turner
Having trouble with positions cause I not very bendy and it's destroying our sex life, can ya help?

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Ms dawn turner
After lovings is it all supposed to leak out of ya???? other wise how to keep it in?

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Ms dawn turner
Is it right for men to have porn? because to me it shows that your not good enough.

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Can my boyfriend get a yeast infection from me?

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