a-levels
When somebody says I like the way you comport (conduct) yourself, what does he or she mean in general?

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a-levels
175cm is it considered as being tall at age 19 or is there any possibility of growing taller than that?

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mary
Me and my husband dont talk anymore, I want to but he doesnt seem to want to, what can I do to get him to want to talk to me again?

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Mr yaw amponsah
How can you you get the death certificate of your wife?

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prettybirdJA
My de facto partner and I separated approximately three months ago. I moved out of the townhouse that we were paying off together. I received free legal advice which was that instead of paying the entire amount of money for the mortgage that I would usually pay, I should take any rent money out that I was paying. My ex agreed to this verbally but has told me that he has a solicitor and is seeking compensation for unpaid money on my behalf. I have some receipts showing that I have been depositing money into his bank account on a fortnightly basis. Can he make this claim for compensation against me and if needed can he be made to show his bank records to prove that I have been making fortnightly contributions?

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Miss favour bright
I am a girl. My step uncle is my father's step brother, they have the same father but different mothers, so can I marry my step uncle's wife's younger brother?

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Miss favour bright
Can you get married to your step uncle's wife's younger brother?

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Relationship troubles, please help with advice!?
I am a guy 22 with my bf 27 and we have a relationship problem.

For about three months now - a month after we got back together, he and I have been having sex about once a month - and that is only due to him giving in to my constant asking after the duration of waiting becomes un-bearable. So, one month after, this is the case...we have had no arguments or fall outs and things are great...but sexual contact is non existant. He openly tells me he masterbates when I'm not at home and also does so collectively at home with me during visual entertainment. Yet when it comes down to embracing in the bedroom, the embrace happens, but that's it. No foreplay, no intercorse, nothing. I have asked what's wrong, he says he doesnt know, just does'nt want sex either way.

He told me just after we got back together, just in general conversation talking about a friends relationship that if a couple dont have a sexual relationship, they are better off single and that there is nothing to base it on. I agree to an extent, however when I bring to light the same scenario now stating that I am not happy with our sex life, he gets all huffy about it! Do I hear hypocracy?? =P

I believe there are either 3 explinations. I think he is either sexually gender confused, bored of our sex life and seeks other excitement or I AM THE PROBLEM. He has said it is not me it's him....(where have I herd that before?) and that he doesn't want sex with anyone else as he doesn't want sex anymore, sex is boreing, not with me, but in general. He insinuates that it may be due to the fact that he has been doing it since he was 13?? I don't believe it to be that commercial...when we split, in that month four months ago, he had played the field, had adverts up, jhad 3 guys sleep her on different occasions and etc...so he thinking sex in general is boreing sounds not very convincing.

I am not sure and along with me being confined in this flat, no freedom, no money and yes I am looking for work and I have no huge responsibility, the only connection I have with my bf is when I force myself to play World of Warcraft with him until the time he goes to bed which is like 1am - 3am and 5 am on weekends. I get tired, and I stay up in hope of getting some base of geting some physical or emotional attention during that 'social' activity. Then when we go to be it's...well...nothing.

Please may I have some feedback

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Twitchy
Why are people so stupid?

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Mrs CAROLINE CHILDS
My husband is nice one minute and very nasty the next. Do I put up with it or ask him to leave?

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Ms Sara Gibson
Well, I think I like this guy but the problem is we havent seen each other in 4 years and he lives on the other side of the world, he has a picture of me and I have one of him. I may see him next year but I'm not sure, we have known each other for 7 years. Should I forget about him??

Oh and we used to talk per email we might talk again its just he started school and he is busy!

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Mr Manoj mishra
How to increase sex with wife?

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How do I go about asking my girlfriends mum for her daughters hand in marriage?

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Mrs himani bist
Is looking beautiful and smart by female person a tease to male person? Do male persons feel some uneasiness or good with beautiful looking women? When I dress up beautifully and use cosmetics such as lipsticks, kajal etc. and wear jewellery I feel guilty that I am teasing male persons by attracting them to me and I give them some harm. Please clear me for my foolish thoughts that is teasing me too much. I like to dress up beautifully but due to above thought my behaviour become abnormal with male person and I feel that I am giving male person some harm. Are our (women/girl) good looking encourage male person to do some wrong deeds with us? Is women trying to look beautiful and smart wrong? Please help me I am going to this obsession which is effecting my life severely.

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Mr Dan Stilffler
Could you help me by telling me what you would do in this situation? -

there is that girl in school who aparently likes me, the thing is - there is so many other boys that like her too.

my feelings are mixed, koz I want to be with her, but then again how could I ever trust her?

iIbeg of you ... please give me an answer of what you would do ...

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chad
hi I am madly in love with my fiancee but I have a prob with her!

one day our new next door neighbour Mandy invited her to a drink next door. While she was next door I looked after the kids and when I went up to check on them I heard noises (luv making) so I put my ear against the wall and I swore I heard my fiancee and a vibrator sound.

I confronted her and she swore on her kids lifes it wasnt her but I feel unconvinced, how can I go about proving whether I am right or she is right and how do I get over the feelings of hurt I am getting?

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Mrs HEDY Pedaci
How can I find pictures of veterans of the Korean war era? I am trying to find a relative, in either the army or air force, and have no current relatives to get information thank-you, Hedy the Seeker.

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Miss Lucy Davies
I'm 14 years old.

I got attacked two years ago. I didnt really think much of it at the time I just knew that I was terribly scared for a while (which I got over) but it also made me very cynical and suspicious.

I walked down the road, Looking over my shoulder. If anyone looked at me, I jumped and crossed the road.

I screamed at strangers for coming too close and scaring me plenty of times.

This became normal.

It's toned down a bit now but I still get ultra panicky sometimes.

I became depressed about 6 months after that and started cutting.

In a year, It went from

Upper arm

Legs

Lower arm

Back of wrist

Wrists

Everywhere

Three months ago, I was scarred and depressed. However, Some of the time I was reasonably happy. I lived for my friends.

My mum and dad have split.

I doubt very much my father even likes me. I rarely see him and when I do he just tells me how I dress far too rocker and I'm too fat.

I try not to let it get to me.

However in the last 3 months I've

Tried diet pills

Made myself sick lotts

Not eaten till I got dizzy

Started smoking

Started drinking

Started burning myself/Smacking my head off walls, Anything that hurts.

Ive been trying to deal with all that stuff and stop. With my friends help, Im sure I could have.

If anything, Ive always had their help.

But Ive became so paranoid.

Intensely paranoid.

This is only over the last week :

*I got my ears pierced again. I knew Id be in trouble - that was fine. But I woke up crying my eyes out because I truly thought my mother wouldn't love me any more. I had to ask my own mum if she loved me.

*I was five minutes late for school. If I ran, Probably less. I refuse to go into school in case my form tutor hated me.

* I called my friend over after school. She looked at me but kept walking. I went home so upset I couldn't speak. I ended up walking to the bus stop and staying there for over an hour thinking - she must hate me. Oh god, Everyone hates me.

* If I call for someone and they're not in, I know they behind the door laughing at me so I never call again.

*I wont go doctors in case they tell my mum. But I forced myself today and they were shut. I walked away as fast as I could and kept thinking Id see my mum everywhere.

I'm convinced my friends hate me. They have been so there for me over the last couple of years I feel completely and utterly lost.

I frequently get carried away with my cutting and once it didnt stop bleeding for hours and I was convinced Id finally gone too far. Sadly not.

I'm sorry for writing such an essay. By writing this, I'm trying to sort out my own head, Get my own answers. Ive wrote it all wrong. I haven't even included half of it but TBH Ive bored everyone enough and this isnt going to help anyway.

Should I try therapy/Pills?

That what my friends kept saying when I was speaking to them.

What the hell should I do?

I hate myself and I'm scared of everyone around me.

I just want the old me back.

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Mrs anupama kumar
What things do you think men don't understand about women? What don't women understand about men?

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lliddell
What types of love are there?

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Mr Jameel Muhammad
Between male and female, who tries to remain a virgin for the longest time?

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k_yogesh_39
Sir/ Madam

I shall be grateful if you could spare some moments reading on this mail

and could guide me regarding the un fateful problem that we are facing.

Although that might be of little interest to you but your advice will be unbiased and precious for us to proceed ahead.

I'm a 28 guy, from & engaged to a girl name Mira.(aged 23 yrs)

Let me tell you about her in brief. She is a qualified engineer and looking for a job now a days. But she is quite upset as she is unable to find a good opening for herself.

But from the last many days she is facing the problem of negative thoughts/emotions/mood variations.

Let me explain in detail:

(1)At times if she is thinking about her father like if he for a job (although he is retired), he might face a accident or might work properly or might have any health problem etc.

Similarly, if she is worried about her brother (who is in 12th standard), that whether he is studying properly or not. while thinking all this her thoughts go to the level that while thinking all this, she will start thinking that he might not get fail, or fall in relation with any girl or such stuff. Similarly, she will think about me also. These thoughts make feel guilty conscious, that she is thinking bad about her family and me too.

(2) Secondly, recently (2-3 months back) I made her aware about the relationship of husband – wife that apart from emotional relations, physical intimacy is also a part of this relation. To which I explained her, in balanced manner (as if explaining in an educational manner, since I received sex educational in my high school), like I received in my high school. To which she responded excitedly and was eager to know more about it. Up to that level it was OK since we haven’t crossed our limits (haven’t developed any physical relationship so far) and are limited to hugs and kisses only.

Problem started when one of her room mates in her PG, showed her a porn movie showing sexual congressions (sex intimacies) in a vulgar manner, after seeing which she was quite upset and felt bad. But to some extent , I could convince her that things are rubbish and are shown in a very cruel manner.

Also after she explanation to her regarding the physical relation, we both sometimes involve ourselves in sort of sexual fantasies on phone involving both of us, to which we both enjoy, although I take care that we discuss that only when she wants. (she is quite relaxed after that) but at times feels guilty about it too.

But, after wards when she is in market or else where in a crowded place, she will start staring at the private parts of other people (men and women) and would imagine about them in her mind. (she feels guilty about it too ) which is, what I think is because of the porn movie that she saw as she often tells me.

Because of these 2 problems she feels low at times and it takes a lot efforts to console her and motivate her, that you go out do some walking watch TV, work on desktops etc so that you are busy.

When ever she feels low while thinking about these things, she calls me and tells me all this thoughts going in her mind (during that she might get angry with me for staying in other city far off, and other topics etc.), after discussing with me (I try to boost/motivate her), she cools down and feels relaxed and is happy that she could share her feelings with me.

Now the question is that whether this is a psychological/ psychiatrist problem involving some medicinal therapies or just the advices/guidance’s from a psychiatrist. Or take her for some mental rejuvenation courses involving meditations?

I'm asking all this because I feel that I will get an unbiased answer to my problem since this is my problem not hers.

I shall be grateful if after reading all this matter for so long , you can guide me.

I shall be waiting to proceed

Regards

Yogesh

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Mrs tina burbage
I want to join the prison service and have done for a number of years, I have been successful with my application and have to attend for an assessment day this week. My husband is dead against the idea and will not discuss it at all with me, he has given me an altermanton that I choose to go for the interview or him as if I go to the interview then he will leave me. Help I really want to do this but he will not see my side of things. Do I just go and lie to him?

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brokenhearted2008
I've been with my boyfriend for 3 half years, I've cheated on him twice in the past, he left me for a month and came back, we had relationship counseling for 4 weeks then at the session we had just gone he said its all over and couldn't get the past out of his head what I had done, we have 2 lovely kids together, its breaking my heart. I dont know what to do, he still loves me and its killing me as much as him being apart but said he can never get the past out of his head, what can I do? me and kids miss him so much its breaking my heart.

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Zebaa
my partner is very conventional in his thinking and may not even want to discuss Viagra.. or perhaps he is not willing to accept that he cant hold on erection for long.. and of course if dont want to be rude so cant tell him that I dont enjoy it so much now.. but maybe after we enjoyed a prolonged sex first time after giving him a small dose of Viagra secretly to him then he too would realise that we need Viagra sometimes for that little extra fun with no harm in it, but I dont know how to get it, can you help - does it come with some brand name? I would find it a little difficult to buy it from the chemist. -please help in suggesting me a safe brand of Viagra.

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shazynysmon
Can anyone explain in simple terms Erik Erickson's theory and how I can relate this theory to a ward environment of patients with the average age of 83?

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Mrs marina ivkovic
My husband and I have separated 4 months ago. We had credit cards and loans that I have combined all in one. Problem is that loan is on my name only and he refuses to pay half? What do I do?

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 bryan dewitt
Why do some girls have more guy friends than girls?

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Miss claire keenan
I am currently 3 months pregnant with my 2nd child and I have a 7month baby already. My boyfriend said he loves me but doesn't find me attractive and that everything will be OK, what should I think?

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Mr Mike Reeves
Hi I am a 23 year old male who putting a very long story short have been deeply in love with a 26 year old lady for about 6-7 years at least.

Its not that straight forward though as there is some history between us though we have never been a couple and she does have a partner.

I did tell her my feelings by writing to her about 3-4 years ago but have not said anything since.

No matter who I meet I always just want to be with the person I love and I just don't know how to tell her.

I went really down hill over this last time and I don't want that to happen again as I have a daughter to look out for.

How do I tell her without making an idiot out of myself and how can I move on if she knocks me back?

Appreciate any help!

I have had a lot of problems over the years and I just really need to get on with my life now but cant while I'm in this situation.

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Mr mitch garden
Why do wife's forget husband birthday?

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mmowho
My sons girlfriend left with their baby during the night while he was intoxicated, can she take their baby away from him?

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C
Having asked about changing the locks when husband left and got his own place does it make a difference that we have a joint mortgage and he has a new lady friend?

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My husband moved out and got his own place, can I change the locks on the door?

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goddess
Due to waking up and smelling the coffee at 44 I am realising who and what matters, when will the anger with them who I shouldn't trust and myself for being so gullible go? I feel I want to now be selfish although not in my nature, help

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goddess
I have been looking at my past relationships with men and have chosen wrongly, not sure why as I am attractive, witty, very caring and have loads of friends, now I'll never trust a man or am I now a man hater?

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hermit
My husband of 28 years is threatening to leave me and I have no idea what to do. I never worked (he didn't want me to while the 4 kids were growing up}after years of physical and worse ..mental abuse ..I'm a shut in with no ..well anything and he's pretty disgusted with what he has created..does anyone have any advice..? all I can think of is disappearing into the mountains and maybe become a hermit..seriously..I would like that..but is it legal?

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Mrs Bonny Woods
How can I encourage my grown daughter to move out of my home or pay rent?

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Mrs Lea schneider
I have been married for 19 years. Mostly, sexless. My husband and I have sex 1x a year. We have (2) children. He has used every excuse in the world as to why he is not interested in sex. I am very attractive, men stare at me all the time and I am very fit. So, it's never been about my appearance or personality. I really feel that he is gay. He visits a college friend all the time in the city who is a lawyer and is gay. He states that they just have dinner thats all. He has tried to be intimate with me in not the right places. (If you know what I mean) He also does not know a women's anatomy. Never has. I recently found (2) emails and they were titled: RE: Don f**kstick important and RE: Thumping F**kstick Tory. Are these gay references? I could not open the emails as I do not have the password. If, he is gay I just wish he would be honest and let me go. It has hurt me for the past 19 years not having him ever want me. Also, he refuses to kiss me on the lips for over 10 years. It has been hard on me to remain faithful to him because I have needs. Sometimes I don't know how I have done it all these years. Is there anyone out there who has experienced a situation like mine or anyone that could help me understand? I am really looking for advice from someone who is gay or someone who was married that found out their husband was gay. I have asked him straight out and he just laughs at me. Or, if I push too hard he once said, "Ok I am as gay as a gay blade." Whatever that means. He will never admit it. I just need some guidance as I can't go to my family with this or close friends. It's too private. PLEASE HELP ME! Thanks

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Miss Natalie Mullings
I am having problems in my relationship with expressing my feelings and communicating. I do not know where to start. I do not know what I want for myself and life.

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Miss Julia Ferguson
How do I try and mend this break up before I finish packing all my belongings?

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Mrs Help Me
My husband is very controlling and I don't know how to deal with it. For instance the other day we were taking a family picture and my husband got mad at me because I styled my hair in a way that he didn't like it. In the midst of the argument I told him that I would have changed it but I didn't have the time. He said I should have bought my hair stuff in the car and changed it to the way he wanted it. He was also upset because I wore makeup. We have been having this makeup argument for the past six months. When he met me I wore make up and colored my hair now he wants me to stop all together. I feel I don't have to because he should accept me for how I am. I wear it because I like it. It helps me feel feminine like all the little things women do for themselves. He feels I need to stop all of it. He gets mad if I tweeze my eyebrows if I color my hair or do any maintenance to myself. He feels like I am being a bad example for our six month old daughter because if she sees mommy wearing makeup she will want to wear it too and then that will turn her into a ####. Yes I know this is stupid but this is how he feels. I have tried to compromise and it doesn't work he just keeps taking from me and taking from me. If this persist I am going to begin to hate myself because I am turning into someone I don't know. What do I do....

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Mr Sebastian V
How to handle factory workers ?

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confused
A few years ago I was in a very stressful situation regarding my mother, whilst trying to maintain a positive family life with my husband and children. I was having considerable trouble coping so I saw a psychologist. Things got worse and I turned to my husband for help. My children were also showing signs of stress. During I found out that my husband belongs to a coven sect. We have been regular church goers. I was very upset by this, especially as he was involved as a guide to help others. I challenged him by saying that he had time for this, but no time or patience for his own family. I nearly left him. I felt that our years together as a couple and as members of our church was a lie. I became more distressed and suicidal. I sought help and have been on antidepressants ever since. I am still uncomfortable with my husband's involvements as I felt betrayed as he had kept it a secret from me for almost 30 years. I know he attends frequent meetings with work committees he is on and with this group. I have chanced on photos of nude group members, one person in particular, when getting an item from his bag on his request. He takes little interest in me and my life and takes no interest in me sexually. I cannot speak to him of any problems as he frequently counters with 'I have problems too'. I am frustrated and feel cut off by this secret life of his. I feel alone and unsure of what is going on and what I can do?

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E.G
How would you explain the phenomenon of 'cursing someone', or just having a very strong wish/thought, which ALWAYS materialize ..but just if it'd be something negative.. is it a certain psychic 'power of mind/thought' ..and if so, how can I take control of it? and turn it to work also to the positive ways? (it doesnt mean that I have just negative thoughts, and etc, but just the negative ones are the strongest in their force to realize and hurm)..

and another question, if twin sisters, will bring childs about the same time, from twin brothers (not their brothers!) just other random twins, how similar might be their children be, also from genetic point of view, what may be different and unusual (if yes) in this kind of union?

thanks!

p.s sorry for my English, if there's any mistakes, not my tongue language!

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Jay_Vincent
Me and this so called friends know each other for years, but for a while now, his always trying to put me down, always tries to correct me, and everything I say, he tries to prove me wrong even if its a simple, " it might rain today" comment, he will freaking go online, and try to prove it wont.

Not to Mention, I get a feeling that he lacks self confidence, and tries to use me as a punching bag to gain whatever his trying to get back, he betrayed my trust a few times in the past, but came back, crawling, and ran with it in a way, that didn't make it look like it was his fault.

I am getting tired of this, he use to be a decent person, but he changed, what should I do ?

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Jay_Vincent
Hi, I Just turned 22 years old, 6 weeks ago. and I always had a a weird anxiety feeling about my life. Some days I feel OK, some days I feel angry, short period of depression, loss of hope, and I don't know what else I can do to make this feeling go away.

I keep dwelling over past, getting angry, arguments with parents.

I don't feel like myself around other people, and some friends.

When I was younger I didn't get a chance to socialize as much, like most people around me did

I blame this mostly due to not having a car, so I couldn't get a job, make money, go out, I was home most of the time and I feel like that held me back from experiencing life to the fullest, and getting life experience out of living, majority of my time was at home, I was bored all the time, felt like I wasn't worth anything, felt like every time I met someone later on they wouldn't take me seriously as a person or try to put me down, felt like people wouldn't accept me.

I had home school after 10th grade, and even made my chances worse of meeting or making new friends, missed out on having fun, going to party's, and every little thing teens do in high school, basically experiencing life to the fullest and now I'm just peed off because I feel like I lost those years of my life and will never be able to get it back, never will be able to have a happy life or memory's, and its hurting me until now, I know this isn't normal, what can I do about it ?. Can someone give me some suggestions or advice to help me out?

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communication problems
How can my relationship with my future husband get better?

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Mrs aneesha jose
My husband wants to keep the photo of his x wife in the house. Even he always tell me that I too need to remember her as I am looking after her kids. Sometime he tells me if I love him and the kids I will keep the photo. I don't want to do that? but I don't want to make him feel bad or hurt. What should I do?

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Mrs lil bit red
I am married with 2 kids and we live with parents for the past two years and we are having money problems. I don't feel that he loves me the way a husband should love his wife and I think that he is content living with us living with my mother. I feel like he wants to be some where else. Am I wrong for wanting to leave him? My ex and I are still friends and he still loves me. What do you think I should do?

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